TO LEARN YOU TO BE FOCUSED SAYS BLESSING EKANS JNR

I read a book written by Mr J. P. Vaswani, he said "Until we learn to become spectators and watch the drama of life unfold itself on the stage of time. If to rely upon God is to be selfish, it is far better to be selfish than to be egoistic".

In this lines, the person's focus is on God not man that's why his reliance on God is his business.

He focused on learning how to learn on God.

Now, what do you want to focus on?
What do you want to learn?

Whatever it is;
Give it give.
Give it attention.
Give it your heart.
Give it your mind.
Give it your strength.
Give it your might.
Give it your all.

And, your focus on whatever you intend to learn will become a dominant but active knowledge in you.

Quote of the day;

Scripted by: BLESSING EKANS JNR.

BLESSING EKANS JNR SAID YOUR TOUGHEST TIMES ARE THE ONE OF YOUR BEST TIMES IN HUMANITY.

The toughest times are one of the best times in humanity.
Tough times, hardens your energy to work, increases your desire to work and elevate your strength.

Most times, our desire to work isn't fulfilled until we experience some times were we have no option than to work hard.

Your hardwork to conquer your tough times empowers your mind to become stronger and think ahead of time.

Tough times series is here, let's read and assimilate it together.

HAPPY TOUGH WEEK.
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WRITER: BLESSING EKANS JNR.

FIGHT THE CHALLENGES.

FIGHT THE CHALLENGES.

Most people have got the wrong impression about challenges letting go of the knowledge that challenges are meant to make you rather than mar.

Most times, if you're able to fight through the challenging times even when you lose. You become the stronger than ever, when a similar situation of such cross paths with you, you'll have a better way of handling the situation.
And, if you happen to venture into another circumstances that seems tougher, you'll courage yourself to go through it because you overcome the other so this one isn't tough enough to overcome you.

Therefore, when you have challenges knocking on your door always know that "CHALLENGES ARE STEPPING STONES TO GREATNESS; SO, DON'T CAST IT AWAY".

Scripted by; BLESSING EKANS JNR.

CHALLENGES

Challenges are obstacles that we've to anticipate in life as well as, we shouldn't be depress because we're passing through challenges.

Well, challenges are often tough and difficult to win but, the truth is that if you don't find your way to win the challenges, they'll always win you. So, you need to be energetic and optimistic to fight the challenges and win them.

Therefore, winning and becoming more stronger.


Scripted by; Blessing Ekans Jnr.

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THE MURDERER.

Tim had a top bud, who never separated from him despite his ringed dreams that lived with him for decades, he still gave more attention to the negative effect of his dreams compared to the positive.
Both in day light and night time, he give it's a thought without striking actions.

Now, actions came arresting long standing top bud. The challenge of non-achievements knock him down to rendering his longstanding top bud for an arrest by actions. Tho, it's difficult to let go of a cherishable to Tim yet, malevolent companion, said Tim. But, I need to tried. Actually, Tim tried yet, he couldn't. It's was difficult for Tim to let go.

Eventually, he lost everything but he had yet a leftover " HIS ACTIONS". Tim displayed his boldship, letting go of all the negative thoughts of his dreams and groomed his endless self-confidence while murdering his self- doubt.

Yes, self-doubt; The only problem Tim had was his self-doubt because, it's grew to an intense point were his confidence can't help but go down for it.

Strikingly, his top bud was "SELF-DOUBT". Oh yes, its stay was exceptionally frustrating but, when he realised that the only murderer for his doubt is his confidence, he began to grow it like a seed groomed to become a plant. He watered his confidence with positivity like a plant watered for growth and productivity. Finally, his confidence arrived him not in the least but the most aspect of his dreams.
He achieved his dreams to the topest point.

What's that doubt, you've inside of you that you can't eliminate?

What's that dreams that you wanna accomplished yet, you're drown in thoughts with no actions?

What's that decision that you've to take that seems difficult?

My advice is "Go ahead, display your boldship, begin the processes and slowly, you'll take over your optimal position in whatever you've to do and achieve with a positive result".

SCRIPTED BY: BLESSING EKANS JNR.

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THE SPEECHLESS ME!

I lost my voice
I loss my belief
My decisions went sour
The pathway to accomplish my dreams became to fold themselves
My dreams began to decay due to the unfolding pathways

I lost the best of me
I loss my thinking faulty to a defaulty
My defaulty became a problematic situation that saddens my mood and interfere my happiness
Well, my interfered happiness
Yes, interfered happiness downcasted me to become a waste in an advantage

Now, my speechlessness got me concealed to a secret I can't reveal
I fought with silence till I became to war out my soul
My mind became a battlefield while my mouth was like a door locked up with a sealed unkeyed padlock

Heart and mind gambled to have the keynote speaker, speak
The enemy became the mouth but, the mind begin to grow self-confidence
The enemy decay bit after bit as the confidence grew
Then, the very own bold me became a monster to speechlessness
And, my confidence grew like a tree by a river.

HAVE THIS QUOTE AT YOUR FINGER TIPS; "IT IS ONLY WHEN YOU'RE SELF-CONFIDENT THAT YOU SPEAK WITH LOTS OF BOLDNESS"!

SCRIPTED BY: BLESSING EKANS JNR.

DEAD SADNESS.

Imagine, if your day was filled with the saddest moment ever and all you do is "SMILE"?
Do you know that a minute smile can transform the long moments of sadness?

Sadness is the state or emotion of being sad or an event in one's life that causes sadness.
In which emotionally, one naturally becomes sad when his/her mind reflect on the darkest past which may affects his/her mood for the moment.

Therefore, sadness has a way of destroying the happy you; So before it's destroys the happy you, destroy the sad you and make yourself the happiest human on planet.

HOW CAN YOU EARN SMILES?

- Wipe off the negative past with the positive future.
- When memories of your worst times reflect, replace them by trying hard to recall memories of your best times. Sometimes, recollection of your best times seems tough, get yourself occupied positivity. E.G; Read a book, Involve in a positive discussion, See a movie, Hangout with ideologists etc.


Wipe off your negative yesterday!

Scripted by: BLESSING EKANS JNR.

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BE YOUR NUMBER ONE FAN!

Self-confident as already known is the assurance in one's abilities.
Assurance is the act of assuring, in which assure is giving confidence in the trustworthiness of something/someone.

Self-confident will always aid you to express your abilities in a way that everyone will desire to identify with you making them your fans, supporters or encouragers.

But, before you think of fans, supporters or encouragers, who is you to your abilities?

You to your abilities means what's your stand is in your abilities. Sometimes, we let other be our fans and we become the worst fans to ourselves.
We lack the self-believe, self-confidence and, self-assurance.

Yet, we embrace self disbelieve, self unconfidence and self unassurance because, we're never our number one fan!

Think of it!
If you're your number one fan;
Don't you think, you'll work more better with 100% effectivity and passionately?
Don't you think, you'll stop pleasing people rather, pleasing yourself?
Don't you think you'll satisfy your unfulfillment and emptiness?

Then, if you wanna become your number one fan;
- Begin to believe in yourself and your abilities.
- Begin to see the best in you before anyone would.
- Begin to incarnate positive affirmations.
- Begin to work out the best of you!


And, wait to wallow in your very best!

Scripted by; BLESSING EKANS JNR.
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WHAT'S CONFIDENCE?

Have you ever been drunk in an hopeless situation, and it seemed your world is coming to an end? Yet, you still stood strong.

Certainly, your confidence won 90% of your weakness and transform it to strength!

Well, most people tend to invest in their unconfidence; Because they don't have the concept of self-confidence.

WHAT'S CONFIDENCE?
Confidence is a passive self-assurance OR The expression/feeling of certainty OR The quality of trusting.

WHAT'S SELF-CONFIDENCE?

One of the most cited sources about self-confidence refers to it as simply believing in oneself (Bénabou & Tirole, 2002). Another popular article defines self-confidence as an individual’s expectations of performance and self-evaluations of abilities and prior performance (Lenney, 1977).

Literally, The Psychology Dictionary Online defines self-confidence as an individual’s trust in his or her own abilities, capacities, and judgments, or belief that he or she can successfully face day to day challenges and demands (Psychology Dictionary Online).

Finally, BLESSING EKANS JNR defines Self-Confidence as individual's trust in his/her own abilities, capacities, powers, qualities, beliefs & judgements.

Now, are you really confident?
Do you trust your abilities, capacities, powers, qualities, beliefs & Judgements?
Give yourself the genuine answer and rate yourself as well.

Well scripted by; BLESSING EKANS JNR.

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THE DARK TRUTH WE PERPETUALLY RESIST.

The resistance of the dark truth began long ago and we humans still embrace it as a result of the ignorance of the consequences.

For every dark truth we resist to accept, we belittle ourselves.

The dark truth is the ugly, unproud and the shameful true words of probably you or your experiences.

It's more ugly when we don't accept this dark truth; we may not tell everyone but, let's learn to accept it.

The Consequences Of Resisting Your Dark Truth;
- You devalue yourself.
- You'll deliberately become an unlearning person.
- You'll begin to choose good friends who offer to help.
- You'll deliberately become a deceiver to your very own self.
- You'll become a negative influence to the society at large (if discovered).

What To Do:-
- Don't chase people away because you don't wanna learn, adapt to learning.
- Generate an habit of accepting your dark truth.
- Learn not to deceive yourself.
- Keep good friends who offer to help you when you need them.
- Your value and market price will rise.

Well scripted by Blessing Ekans Jnr.

THE SECOND HALF.

The year turns half
A part of the year's half is gone
The remains aren't for luck rather work
The work isn't for the feeble but the potent

The strength lost
The regular drainage of energy
The surrounding of a moist trauma
The heap of thoughts without solution
The set of constant trials with no ending
The opposition came from every with a root somewhere
With a competition, you feel you can't conquer

The trophy ahead isn't easy to get
Yet, the conquerors awarded themselves with it
The competition becomes tougher
Yet, there's always a companion

Why can't you be the companion in the second half?
Why can't you conquer in the competition and become the conqueror in the second half?

Here is another chance to achieve your dreams this year.
Don't waste the second half.

Happy July.
Scripted by; Blessing Ekans Jnr.

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HOW TO ACCEPT THE TRUTH?

Sometimes, we never accept the truth; we assume that it's so ugly that it's can't be told to people because, we don't have the courage to do so then, we get ourselves shamed.

90% of the truth told are not done willingly rather by persuasion from humans or conscience.

How to learn to accept the truth?

- Primarily, tell yourself the truth:- A proverb says "you can deceive everyone but, you can't deceive yourself".
Yourself, you can't deceive therefore, learn to admit the truth to yourself and work on it.

- Learn to listen to others:- Other human keeps a close watch at you to note your flaws, if any human discussion your flaws with you, appreciate it not all humans do that, some are awaiting to use your flaws against you.

- Learn to be truthful:- The truth, set you free from every deceitful lifestyle forwhy, one truth leads to another truth and one lie leads to another lie. So, which do you chose?
To be a liar or a truther?
Well in my prescription, I will recommend that you should be a truther.

The truth:-
- Gives you a well defined dignity. - Makes you a (wo)man of integrity.
- Generate an apex of greatness
- Gives you higher platforms daily.

To be honest, it's quite cumbersome to be a truther tho, lots of temptable situations will come your way but, if you can stand up to the truther that you're, you'll win the race and benefits more than expected.

Written by:- Blessing Ekans Jnr.
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THE SQUELCH OF FEAR AND NEGATIVITY BY HOPE.

Can hope be a better kill off for fear and negativity?

Oh yes, the possessionary of multiple hopes lesser that of fear and negativity; Its because two rivals can't win the war at the same time. It's either one surpasses the other or they both have an equal rights or privileges.

In succeeding, favourable outcomes are there supposed achievements; Therefore, negativity and positivity should not have equal rights or privileges in the life of an optimist's achiever rather, the level of positivity should be higher, practically 60-100% in juxtapose to the level of negativity which should be between 40-0%, not a fifty-fifty.

The potency of hope squelches fear and negativity in the lives of human; The higher your hope, the lesser your fear and negativity, as well as, the stronger your hope, the weaker your fear and negativity.
Positivity has a way of dominating negativity. Consequently, your hope is a virtuous desire for a good future in which, it is positive and if the desire for the good future is grown daily to an irresistible level of about 60-100%, fear and negativity will depreciate daily as well.
Hope can suppress fear and negativity on the account of, you desire a good future.
You and I have a mutual agreement that HOPE can kill off fear and negativity.
Be hope filled.
Have lots of Hope.
And, stay Hopeful.

Scripted by; Blessing Ekans Jnr.
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THE BENEFITS OF HOPE.

Hope has a relatively close relationship with optimistic and pessimistic. Tho, optimistic and pessimistic are oppositions and they're not identical to hope but, they work in synergy to have a perfect no hope or full hope.

Everyone has expectancies but, it's in their place to decide if they won't or will have hope to exceed their expectancies.

In the sight of having great desire for the right motives; Pessimistic brings about little or no hope while optimistic brings about full hope.

WHY CHOOSE PESSIMISTIC?

A pessimist is unstable in decision taking because, they can never take risks. They feel they can't make it's, so in a little trial and error, their end of discussion is that they are failures.

At times, their pessimistic attitude spare them from failures or drastic breakthrough but, they fail more than the real failure itself.

CHOOSE OPTIMISTIC INSTEAD?

Your desire to be a pessimist maybe endless yet, it's not helping.

The reason why the robber confidently rob you is because he or she is optimistic about what he or she is doing and his or her optimism is for the wrong motives.

Yours is rightly examined and it's for the utmost best yet, your optimism level is 0.00.

History have it's that, academically the optimist fellow will always be 100% better, compared to the pessimist.

On health, the healthiest are they optimist. 

Do you know why?

They forgo problems but, discover the solution instead of worrying over the problems.

They don't exchange their happiness for worries.

They don't leave unresolved issues for thoughts.

They don't harbour evil for one another.

Now, because of not letting off their happiness. Statistics have it that anyone who is ill but lives happily when get heal quickly compared to the sad ill persons.

THE BENEFITS OF AN OPTIMIST WITH HOPE ARE?

- You are healthier compared to a pessimist.

- You are an academics giant.

- Your happiness is never exchange for a mere problems.

- Even in your illness, you are better of compared to a pessimist.

- You are more determined and focus.

- You are a risk taker.

- And, optimists are relatively successful.

WRITTEN BY; BLESSING EKANS JNR.

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THE PESSIMISTIC EFFECTS OF NEGATIVITY ON HOPE.

The word hope is a feeling of an expectation or desire for a particular thing to happen or it's a feeling of trust.

In a more detail explanation, Hope is an optimistic state of mind that's based on expectations of positive outcomes in respect to events and circumstances in one's life or the world at large.

Hope is an optimistic state of mind that's based on expectations of positive outcomes in respect to events and circumstances in one's life or the world at large.

Hope has failed on some people and hope has succeed on some.

The reason why hope failed on some is that they optimistic state of mind began to diminished day after day because the hopeful aspect of them is losing it's solidity in their lives. Negativity has dominated their lifestyle and kill their hope in them. 

Now, negativity is no more a seed but a tree with branches, it's can easily penetrate through the other part of the optimistic lives of a human and kill or dominate it easily.

Hopefully, if you can fight against it, your hope is up and doing but, if you can't, your hope is down and dead.

The death of hope is rampant and sometimes, it's as a result of our carelessness and less ability of recheck in our hope lives.

Hope's enemy; NEGATIVITY takes full advantage of our carelessness and inability to recheck and bounce back the pessimistic or undesirable results on us and leave us with no optional choices, then to accept the results and take their effects and consequences.

To avoid these, try to fight against negativity. It's an enemy to HOPE.

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Written by; Blessing Ekans Jnr.